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Little girl in Miami tells Santa she doesn't want to sit on his lap and his reaction goes viral Santa in Florida tells little girl 'it's her body' and she gets to decide what she wants to do By Gretchen Eichenberg Fox News Published December 19, 2023 3:55am EST | Updated December 19, 2023 12:08pm EST After waiting in an endless line, most kids are plopped down on Santa’s lap for a quick conversation and an obligatory photo. But a Miami toddler wasn’t having it. She told Santa "no" — and he was only too happy to hear it. "When she said, ‘No,’ I’m thinking, ‘OK, I'm Santa. That’s a huge responsibility,'" Steve Lantz, a pastor and paid Santa Claus in Miami, Florida, told Fox News Digital. "Because you're not just a celebrity impersonator — there's a legacy. Even before he was Santa, he was Saint Nicholas, Bishop of Myra," added Lantz. "I’ve got to get this right." Steve Lantz, a pastor and paid Santa Claus, has gone viral after a young girl told him that no, she did not want to sit on his lap. (Carolina Apey) Last week, Katie Love and her three-year-old daughter Adley dressed up to visit Santa Claus at the Ritz Carlton Key Biscayne in Miami. "They were having a holiday party and my daughter for weeks has been so excited to meet Santa and tell him that she wants a purple bike for Christmas," said Love, a social media strategist, to Fox News Digital. MEET THE AMERICAN WHO CREATED THE FIRST DEPARTMENT-STORE SANTA: IMMIGRANT ENTREPRENEUR JAMES EDGAR "We're actually Jewish, but she is obsessed with all things Christmas," the mom added. As they waited in line, Love said her daughter was watching kids go up to sit on Santa’s lap. Katie Love (left) and her husband Aaron Martin (right) are Jewish, but their daughter Adley (center) is obsessed with all things Christmas. (Katie Love) "I could tell she was getting a little nervous," Love told Fox News Digital. "So I said, ‘Adley, you can go up there, but you don't have to sit on his lap. That's your choice. You can decide what you feel most comfortable with.'" Then it was finally Adley's turn to go up and talk to Santa. Seated in a grand red upholstered chair, Santa asked her if she would like to sit on his lap. And the child answered, "No." "It could have been a moment for Santa to make her feel awkward or uncomfortable, or he could have even just ignored it," Love said. But instead, Santa affirmed Adley’s decision. "I'm thinking this is my opportunity as a minister to be a legit Santa," Lantz said. "So I'm not thinking of the ‘ho ho hos.’ I'm just thinking about what's good, what's loving, what's kind, what's right, what's godly." GEN Z PARENTS REFUSING TO TEACH THEIR KIDS ABOUT SANTA, CLAIM IT'S 'TRAUMATIZING' Katie Love got out her phone and started recording. Lantz told little Adley that it was her choice to sit on his lap or not — a message that Love said she wanted her daughter to hear. When "Santa," whose real name is Steve Lantz, asked Adley if she wanted to sit on his lap, the young girl answered, "No." (Katie Love) "He told her it’s her body and she gets to decide — and that not even Santa can make that decision for her," Love said. "And I thought that was a really incredible moment because the idea of sitting on Santa's lap is very antiquated," added the mom. "The idea of exchanging physical touch in order to get something or to get a present is a concept that I want to move away from, as I am trying to teach my daughter to be a confident woman." ELF IN LOUISIANA FAMILY'S HOME GOES MISSING: DOG LOOKS GUILTY, KIDS ARE CRYING Love posted the video on her TikTok account — where it has garnered some two million views. "I wasn't expecting the video to resonate with so many people, but I got so many messages and comments from people who say they feel the same way," Love said. At the Santa encounter, Katie Love pulled out her phone to share how Lantz encouraged Adley's response and her ability to say, "No." (Katie Love) "We love an educated Santa," one TikTok user commented. "Way to teach your little lady boundaries early," another user wrote. "All Santas take note," another person commented. Lantz, a father of two young children himself, said there’s a song called "My Body" that he and his wife taught their kids. "It's part of a curriculum to help protect your children from sexual abuse," Lantz said. "The chorus is, "My body's nobody's body but mine. You run your own body. Let me run mine.’ Instead of warning them about freaks and instilling fear, we thought, Let's teach them how valuable their body is, how valuable they are and that they control their body, not adults." Some viewers said they thought the little girl looked confused by the whole interaction — and neither Love nor Lantz can deny that. "Her mom said she was probably more confused that I didn't respond to her request," Lantz said. "That she's probably going, ‘Wait. I said I want a purple bike, and you’re telling me my body’s my body.’" Lantz is also a father of two young children, and he taught both of them a song called "My Body," he said. (Lynda Lantz) Love said other commenters on TikTok thought Adley was "way too young" to be taught such lessons. "I really don't agree with that," she said. "Children have such little control, and for her to understand that she's in control of who touches her body and who she wants to give physical touch to is very important. I don't think that that's something that she needs to wait to learn." The larger message, Love said, is for women to stand up for themselves and listen to their instincts. "I think that teaching my daughter that ‘no’ is a complete sentence, and that she should be empowered to say it without ramifications, has been really important," Love said. Katie Love has encouraged her daughter to draw personal boundaries. (Katie Love) "I grew up saying ‘yes’ and trying to be a people pleaser. We were just taught to be polite and to hug the uncle we didn't want to hug or to sit on Santa's lap." In this — his very first season as a paid Santa — Lantz said he’s already picked up on a lot. CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR OUR LIFESTYLE NEWSLETTER "One thing that I've learned, and you learn this real quick, is that every kid matters," Lantz said. Katie Love recorded the moment that Santa (aka Steve Lantz, at left) told her daughter that she didn't have to sit on his lap and that "no" means "no." (Katie Love) "You have to deal with the kid in front of you. You can't worry about the line. And so you treat every kid as special and you don't rush," he added. At home, Adley is an affectionate child who gives her mom and dad hugs and kisses all the time, Love said. But she knows how to draw a boundary. "Kids can still have a magical interaction with Santa without having to sit on someone's lap that they don't know," Love said "As she grows up, I hope that's something she remembers and that it leads her down a path of feeling strong and empowered." Source: https://www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/little-girl-miami-tells-santa-she-doesnt-want-sit-lap-reaction-goes-viral

Technically Nicholas provided the dowries to keep them from being sold into slavery. I personally have no issue with Santas having no connection to Christianity. Santa can be both secular and nonsecular.

No disrespect intended, but I am not sure you do know the origin and reasoning behind the development of the Santa Claus Oath. And as stated earlier, the Santa Claus Oath has nothing to do with religion. Even if one doesn't prescribe to religious faith, the works of Nicholas of Myra (a real person by the way) serve as a universal guideline for ethical behavior, empathy, and compassion. You don't have to be religious to recognize and follow these values, as they offer practical wisdom for everyone, regardless of spiritual beliefs or lack thereof.